Are You A Bad Guy Magnet?
the dude with no ambition….you know, the
guy you think is so cool…until your friends and family meet him and say
“you could do so much better than him! But of course you can’t let
yourself believe them – plus, you see so much more in him than anyone
else does!
(this was the guy after college)
the guy who just wants to be friends with benefits. You stick around way too long, wishing and praying that he would
come around, change his mind, and want me to be his girlfriend. (This was my magnet in college)
the guy with the drinking problem…ah
yes…so rewarding to have what you thought was a romantic night filled
with deep conversation about the future of your relationship…and then he
wakes up in the morning, pukes, and is completely unable to recall
anything that happened the night before. What a keeper! (This was a co-worker I got involved with - opps!)
the man who cheats. And foolish enough to take him back…at which point – you guessed it – he cheated again! (who hasn't had one of those?)
the psychological abuser. (former boyfriend)
the closeted gay guy. (yeah, former boyfriend, came with the other description right above = head game)
One after another, without ever taking a breather – doing everything in your power to try to make them work out? I'm done. I needed help!
Enter Paige Parker. a dating coach and relationship expert who's website is one of the
most popular destinations on the internet for dating advice for women.
She
has owned up to dating the above men, over and over again and feels the
fate of these relationship all rested on her ability to become the
"perfect" girlfriend for each of these guys. She would even become
someone she wasn't' to 'fit' into their lives. She found she would
always be around her boyfriends so he couldn't lose interest, fall out
of love or cheat on her.
Sound familiar?
Paige
admits to being desperate for some man to fill it up with love and
reassurance - she had no self-esteem and rather than working on getting
some, she made it her boyfriend's responsibility to make her feel better
about herself.
See similarities?
What
was it that made her abandon her own life to meld it with another
person, this neediness? Why was she a magnet for these men? Men who
had a lot of emotional baggage and dumping it in her lap? No wonder why these end in disasters!
Where are the good guys?
Guess what? Paige wants to let yourself off the hook.
It’s not your fault. You have been lied to
by Hollywood and society. And it all comes back to that seemingly romantic sentiment in Jerry Maguire.
“You. Complete. Me.”
When
we search for love, we’re looking for someone to fill us up and make us
whole. We’ve been confused into thinking that our happiness is someone
else’s responsibility.
So you put yourself “out there” in the dating scene hitting the bars and clubs,asking friends to set you up with
acquaintances and coworkers, searching through hundreds of men’s dating
profiles online…all in the hopes that you’ll find the perfect man.
The missing puzzle piece.
Our other half.
Our better half.
Well guess what? It doesn’t matter how you choose to look for love. When you seek love from a place within of neediness and
insecurity, you’re setting yourself up for complete and total failure each and every time.
You’ve been doing this for year. Probably since you started dating as a teenager.
What is the flip side to this Hollywood lie?
Understand men better
Love yourself more
Whether this seems shockingly simple to you, or completely overwhelming, you don’t need to worry about a thing. Paige is going to teach you how to make these two things happen faster than you could imagine.
Men’s
and women’s behavior are strongly driven by our biological makeup. The
way you have been action in relationships have pushed men away because
they are wired to purse. Men are hunters by nature. You may make
yourself way to available for them to enjoy the pursuit - or if they
even wanted to persue. If you are make it too easy for them, they
become lazy or he is lazy to begin with.
An
if you are constantly needing to talk about your feeling or be
reasssured were the realtionship was going? This causes a guy to shut
down, making him unable to hear you. Which makes you crazier.
Have you been making the same mistakes
over and over again?
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Why don’t quality men approach me?
- Why didn’t he call when he said he would?
- We had an amazing first date…why didn’t he ask me out again?
- I thought things were going so well…why did he suddenly disappear?
- Why is he so hesitant to define the relationship or commit to me?
- Why does he shut down when I get emotional?
- Things always feel worse after a fight. Will we ever learn to communicate effectively?
- He acted like he was in love with me but never said so. So I told him first…why did he freak out?
- Every time we get close, he suddenly pulls back and needs “space” – what’s that about?
- Will he ever want to marry me, or is he just waiting for someone better to come along?
Men and women think, act and
communicate differently
- Discovering the importance of our own self-worth
- Do whatever it takes to recognize our unique beauty and become the confident and secure women we were created to be
- Learn to understand how men thing so
we can behave and communicate in ways men are actually responsive to
rather than always relying on our not-so-healthy instincts
And avoid drama for GOOD!
Paige say right around the time she did this shift, she met a really GREAT guy! She tested this theory and notice an extraordinary difference in how she felt - RIGHT AWAY!!
Rather than obsessing over whether this guy liked her, she chose
to focus on believing in how special, fun, and interesting she was and
waited for him to prove that he was worthy of spending my precious time
with her! T
his shift in attitude filled me with confidence and made me feel powerful and in control.
She didn’t give in to feelings of neediness or desperation.
She didn’t call him incessantly or try to manipulate the
situation to get him to ask her out.
She didn’t wait by the phone.
She made a
concerted effort to enjoy her life – hanging out with friends, taking up some classes and actives she loved.
When he’d call to ask her on a date, she would check her busy calendar to find time. He, the peruser, took note of this and it was driving him crazy. He found her exciting, interesting, and loved her confidence and
independence. She had a wonderful life that he wanted to be a part of!
Paige wants to share this powerful knowledge with you! She interviewed hundreds of men to get their honest opinion on
how they felt about things like: attraction, flirting, calling, who
should ask who out, intimacy, communication, breakups, dating after
divorce, and more.
She put herself in the shoes of every woman who is frustrated and
confused with men and relationships. How could she make this easy to
understand and apply to everyday life?
The result is Dating Without Drama - the essential new rules to help you understand men and succeed at the dating game.
A smart woman learns from her own mistakes.
But a wise woman learns from others’ mistakes.
You don’t have to suffer through one more dating disaster.
You’ve probably had your fair share, and if not, well - She's done enough
of it for you…
Here’s your opportunity to learn from her mistakes – and your
own, if you’re feeling brave enough to take a good hard look at what’s
not working in your life.
Either way, if you read Dating Without Drama – which many women say they do in just one sitting because they can’t put it down! –
and start applying the principles to your life…
…you will achieve the love life you deserve.
Some examples you'll learn in Dating Without Drama:
- How to break the vicious cycle of “W’s”: wishing he’d ask
for your number, waiting for him to call, wondering where the
relationship is going, and worrying he’ll never commit
- Men’s six secret commitment fears exposed
- How to date confidently without being controlled by your emotions
- The scientific explanation of why men pull away just as things start to get serious
- The key to a having a relationship that doesn’t feel like work
- The calling game decoded: when to expect he’ll call you
- The crucial difference between infatuation and real attachment
- The secret to being in control of a relationship
- How to encourage a man to ask you out on a date without scaring him off
- 10 ways to tell if a guy is “boyfriend material”
- The 10 do’s and don’ts of a first date without drama
- How to handle post-date phone calls, emails, and texts… or what to do if he’s not contacting you at all
- How to decode men’s behavior by understanding their biology
- What “the conversation” is and why it’s never a good idea
- Why dating more than one man can lead you straight to “the one”
- How to analyze your first date from your perspective and his!
- The key to meeting someone in any location or situation
- Why women aren’t designed for “no strings attached” or “friends with benefits” relationships
- Why it can be dangerous to act on your instincts
- The “tool kit” for effective communication
- How to stop feelings of neediness, loneliness & desperation forever
- What instantly turns men off
- The key to healthy intimacy
- The 5 stages of defining/redefining your relationship and how to handle them without screwing it up
- How to take responsibility for your own happiness
- 5 concrete ways to show him you’re “girlfriend material”
- And so much more!!!
If
you're ready to learn all of these secrets and radically transform your
love life from dating disaster to drama-free relationship queen and
hear Paige herself?
Click Here!